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Cheating Hearts

Are you worried about your marriage?  Do you think your partner may be cheating, on-line or otherwise? 

DID YOU KNOW...

An amazing 60% of men - and 40% of women will have at least one extramarital affair.
	The Hite Report on Male Sexuality of 1980 found that 72% of men married two years or more had had an extramarital affair.
	The Shere Hite's 1987 survey of women found that 70% of women married five years or more had had an extramarital affair.
	Approximately 15% of women and 25% of men have more than four affairs during their married lives.
	Fewer than 10% of people having affairs divorce their spouse and marry their lover (of which 75% of these marriages end in divorce).
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Signs of a Cheating Lover / Spouse / Partner:
	They start working a lot of overtime
	They use the internet excessively
	You keep receiving hang up phone calls
	Your Lover / Spouse is no longer interested in sex
	They use the phrase  " I need my space!" Check out this site if you think you need more clarity or information on this topic.
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http://www.chatcheaters.com/

The Relationship of Sex and Intimacy

So many people want to fix their sex lives without looking at their relationship.  We have this romantic notion that sex happens early on in a relationship and is ment to stay that way over time.

Resentments build up, busy careers create exhaustion, kids, commitments in the community, etc. all can diminish the love that brought two people togeather in the first place.

Without a strong, loving, intimate friendship it's very difficult to have a regular, loving, erotic sex life.  Has your relationship and sex life gotten marginalized?  Is your relationship in trouble?

Take the test on this site for answers to those questions.

http://www.sexsmart.com/couplessection.htm

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